when ur frens are in trouble...

i wonder how to help out on those frens around you when they get into deep trouble?

1, listen to thier problem, try to giv advise to help them out? *not everyone like to seek advise thou... tat might lead to some misunderstanding between 2 frenship, coz some ppl are jus stand firm on thier own way.
2, stay quite, do not interfere thier problem, jus act blur pretend nth happen? *tats cruel in the way between 2 frenship.
3, making fun of them of their problem like make them a Joker for entertaining purpose? *dun think ppl will do tat ba, might break off between 2 frenship.
4, try to b a bad guy & gd guy for the intern of helping their problem to b solve? *kinda weird but this might trigger their mind of problem solving their own problem but their might get misunderstanding tat ppl are not tat serious on helping them.
5, keep on pushing them, enlighten them, advising, bring up thier problem so tat can get rid out their problem & lead to a normal life as usual. *gd ideal but some ppl are jus tat stubborn, they keep on pretending nth happen, sometime isolate them self away from u like dun wan ppl to interfere their problem & depress on their own self.

hmm... duno wat else to think off, human are funny, when nid help, they dun wan listen to other ppl's views yet they keep the issue on top of their head spinning around without solving it.

for mi, to solve my daily problems i face, i always looks on ppl's view/advise or wadeva to solve my problem, somtimes i will refer to www to seek the truth of my problem, i live to learn from my mistake, from ppl's mistake, take ppl's views to enrich my own knowledge, somtimes i had my own views but when think around compare to other ppl's views, theres still a tiny matter tat nid to b reviews to make it perfect conclusion, i see i learn, i listen i learn, i read i learn & i think i learn, try hard to make my self a semi perfect human *no human are perfect in this world.
i had bunch of frens around mi, & i always take thier's gd pts use on my self, try to b a better person, i oso giv countless advise & pt of view base on my own living experiences try to help out those in nid of help. jus hope tat my those 2 cent's of advise will help them up =X
anyway, ppl always said, different ppl different views, yes i agree but at least listen, learn, improve those view to help ur self, no 100% will help but at least still got 1% can b help out, 1% x 100 ppls = 100% ^^
hmm... still nid to think of somting again... someone is in trouble... deep deep mess on between frenship...

zak... off to my dreamland seeking someting useful ^^